Thursday, December 2, 2010

We finally have our blog!

Welcome to our adoption blog.  It's taken a while for us to get it started because neither one of us are very computer savvy.  We may be one of the few people in the world that do not have a myspace/facebook page (which ever one it is that people have now).  So please forgive us if our blog is very basic.  We will try to keep this updated as we continue through the remainder of our adoption process.   

I will attempt to give a brief summary of how we've arrived at this point in our adoption.  In September 2008 we began the paper work to adopt a child from the West African country The Gambia.  This country was new to having adoptions processed through the United States.  In fact we were going to be the second couple from the US to adopt from there.  We quickly processed our paper work and began waiting.  However, the first couple that adopted from there ran into many problems while they were in the country.  After waiting about a year, it became clear our adoption was never going to be processed.  So our agency recommended we switch countries.  The Gambia program has been put on hold since then.  So we began from scratch adopting from Ethiopia.  After finishing our paper work again, Ethiopia's paper work was much harder, we were put back on a waiting list.  Almost a year after beginning the paper work, Vanessa began looking at a waiting child list and realized there are many children in Africa that are not being adopted because they are HIV+.  After we researched it, we decided there is no reason we shouldn't adopt a child because they are HIV+.  So we told our agency we wanted to accept an HIV+ child.  We immediately received a referral for an 8 month old boy.  Shortly after accepting the referral we were told more tests were performed and it turns out he is not HIV+.  So to make a long story short, we have a baby boy!!!  We do not know yet when we will be traveling to Ethiopia.  We are still waiting on a court date.  We just received our monthly update.  His health is good and he is developing as normal.  They also attached the following photos.  And yes, they have him dressed in girl's clothes.  I guess when you live in an orphanage you wear whatever they give you.

Oh, by the way, some of you may have known we were having some trouble coming up with a middle name.  We originally had the name Denver Alan Morgan.  But it was brought to our attention what his initials would be.  So we had a contest to see who could come up with the best middle name.  We had many good suggestions, but there was one we liked the best.  Grandma Joy won the contest.  His full name is going to be Denver Kaleb Morgan.  Kaleb is an Ethiopian name that means heart, faithful or bold.

7 comments:

  1. I didn't win the contest with Nugget or Bronco (no h)?!?! Dang! :) I really am SO happy for you guys! You will be wonderful parents. Can't wait to get my hands on him and squeeze the crap out of him. :) Love you guys!

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  2. I am so excited for you guys! And his name is perfect! Names mean so much in Africa...most of the time people have a name for their circumstances there! It will mean so much to him that you gave him a name with the African meaning in mind! You are going to be the best parents ever! I am just so touched by how faithful you were to being open to any child and how God has chosen to give you this very special little guy! He is perfect, and I can't wait to meet him in person!

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  3. I can't believe I lost the middle name contest I even download the app! Kel and I can't wait until Denver gets here.

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  4. I didn't even get to submit my list! If I'm gonna lose, I guess mom is ok to lose to. I can't wait for Denver to get here. Aunt Kel will make him rotten to the core....ask Matt. You're going to hate me :) Love you!

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  5. We are so excited for you all! Grandma Joy is keeping us updated at school. We're praying things move quickly and that maybe you three will be together as a family very soon.

    My nephew and his wife are trying to adopt two five year old boys from Ethiopa. We are all excited for them too!

    Thanks for the blog. We'll follow it!

    Mark and Susan Lauderdale

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  6. I'm excited I won the name contest. Your Dad and I collected on the prize Jen promised today, we babysat the twins! I'm pretty impatient to get the little guy. However, since God has worked out everything to put the three of you together, we can trust Him with the details! Love you!

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  7. This is such wonderful news! We're very excited for you guys. We continue to pray for God's blessings for you and for Him to keep watch over Denver!

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